Positively encouraging a challenging CM team member

Challenging Team Member Questions 

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“We have a CM team member who …”

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is harsh with kids

How do I deal with a CM team member who is harsh with the kids?

is harsh with parents

How do I deal with a CM team member who is great with the kids, but is harsh with the parents?

is a “maverick”

How do I deal with a CM team member who doesn’t attend CM team meetings, and who is becoming a “maverick” among the team?

refuses to use curriculum

How do I deal with a CM team member who wants to “follow the spirit” instead of using the curriculum?

is negative

How do I deal with a CM team member who speaks negatively to other team members, and who spreads gossip?

dresses inappropriately

How do I deal with a CM team member who dresses inappropriately, and the parents have commented about it?

refuses to wear team wear or id

How do I deal with a CM team member who refuses to wear the CM team wear, or the CM ID badge?

is uncontrolled

How do I deal with a CM team member who lets his/her room be “out of control,” and who refuses to apply the suggestions given?

doesn’t attend church

How do I deal with a CM team member who doesn’t attend an adult service, or who doesn’t attend this church?

is always late

How do I deal with a CM team member who is always late arriving to the church to serve in the CM?

uses bad language

How do I deal with a CM team member who uses “bad language” when the kids are around?

is lgbtq+

How do I deal with a CM team member who just told me that he/she is LGBTQ+?

publically smokes

How do I deal with a CM team member who smokes in the parking lot as the kids are walking by?

practices wild evangelism

How do I deal with a CM team member who doesn’t abide by our procedure about leading children to the Lord?

 

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